Grand Opening

So I’ve been working on a new project for a bit, and last week I brought the website online. I’m debating still whether or not to move everything over there, or leave some stuff here. Either way, I thought I’d announce the “Grand Opening”. :-)

The Evolution of Jai

Jaidon’s fall school pictures arrived yesterday, yay! I scanned in his picture from ’04 as a comparison. Not as much of a tan, but still a rather handsome lad, eh? :-)

P90X Lessons

So, I’ve had the P90X DVDs since 2009. Since then I’ve made multiple attempts and completed two rounds. The first completed round I really don’t count because it was half-arsed, at best. I barely finished it and skipped a whole lot of days. The most recent round, with results posted previously, was the real deal. After this one, I can confirm that completing your first real round of P90X is a true commitment. I know a couple people at work who have been having trouble completing their first rounds as well, and yesterday another person mentioned she was just getting started and having a bit of trouble. So, I started putting together a list of ‘lessons learned’ over that last year for her, and decided to post them up here as well. Hopefully this will be helpful information for anyone working to complete their first round. What’s next for me? Currently I’m into my 4th week of a fresh round, and starting in January, P90X2!

Decide. Commit. Succeed.

Oh, so corny! Alas, not to be written off, as it’s true. Something I learned long ago when competing at a high level is that you will only get back what you put in. If you truly decide you want a change, commit yourself to making the change, success will indeed follow. This really is important, because if you’re not in the best of shape the first 6-8 weeks will simply be a lesson in survival. From my own experience and from others I’ve spoken to, it’s the final few weeks where you really start seeing and feeling the results. Stick with it and bring your best effort to every workout.

Food, Body, Soul

Put simply, you are what you eat. Whether your follow the meal plans provided, or do your own thing, I suggest really learning about what you put into your body. This is a topic I’m quite passionate about, and will elaborate on in a future post.

Track Everything

Use the Excel spreadsheets! A lot of work was put into these, and they can be a hugely motivational tool. I have my sheet up during the workout and have a goal of beating my numbers from the previous workout every time. I did 14 pullups last week? Well then, I’m gonna hit 15 or more! During workouts where you repeat moves as well, the sheet will turn orange if you didn’t match the numbers. 22 pushups first round and 20 second, orange. I hate the orange. I will push out those last few and turn that square green if it kills me…

Equipment and Location

I workout in a tiny basement, 10′x9′ with a 7′ ceiling and cement floor. I also have a very limited set of equipment: set of bands, pull-up bar, a chair, and a yoga mat & block. So, if you think you need a ton of space and lots of expensive equipment think again. Intensity is 100x more important than fancy equipment.

Yoga X

Stick with it. I know it’s a bit cheesy at first if you’re not into it, and it’s a larger time commitment compared to the other workouts, but it’s worth it. During my last round, I actually skipped the Yoga days a few times in the beginning, or even replaced them with Cardio X simply because I could not do the moves. A couple months in, my strength and flexibility improved enough that I was able to actually complete the entire session, so stuck it out. I’m now totally into the yoga and I can really see the positive impacts with flexibility, strength (especially in my shoulders) and focus. Yes, I felt kind of lame at first, but open your mind a bit and results will follow.

While a decent yoga mat is a given, I would highly suggest getting a block as well. I picked up a simple block made from cork (renewable and sustainable, of course!) for about $10. Even if you are already very flexible (I haven’t been ‘flexible’ since high school), having the block allows you to focus on the movement and form itself rather than pressure/pain of the move. I swear I sweat more during yoga than any other workout.

Ab Ripper X

Let’s be clear on one thing: Targeted fat loss is a myth. You cannot simply do a bunch of situps and expect your belly fat to disappear. Of course, this doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t work your core. What it does mean is that along with core work, you sort out your diet (bottom line, weight loss comes from creating a calorie deficit). Plain and simple, a 6-pack is built in the kitchen, not the gym.

I’m not saying you should not be doing the Ab routine. Rather, I want to set expectations here. In fact, the best thing you can do for your core is to learn to engage. I learned this running hurdles in high school track. Focusing on tightening, or ‘locking’ the core (abs, hip flexors, etc) during every move, whether it’s cardio or strength training, is super important. Not only will it enable your body to perform better, it tones and strengthens all of those small, supportive muscles. Focus on keeping your core locked tight .

What’s that, you can’t complete even a few of the moves? No problem. Skip the workout if you need to in the beginning, then slowly add it in, but scaled down. Start by trying to get 5 or 10 reps of each move, with the emphasis on good clean form. If you do your best every time, I guarantee you will eventually catch up and hit every rep. Set your goal to kill it and work steadily toward that goal.

Sleep

Easily the most neglected part of any training program. Sleep is another topic I will be dedicating an entire post to later. Over the last twelve months I’ve been on a mission to get a decent night’s sleep. I can honestly say that sleep quality is just as important as any nutrition or workout plan. Your body and mind need the rest to rebuild and refresh. Bottom line, make sleep a priority. Yes, I know you really want to watch Castle/Modern Family/whatever else is on TV, but you have to decide what’s more important; a TV show, or your health?

Decide. Commit. Succeed.

The Carrot, Egg, and Coffee Bean

The below story was passed on to me by a wonderful friend a while ago when I was working through one of the most trying times of my life. I’ve had it pinned to my wall as a reminder and I thought I’d share:

A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling.

It seemed as one problem was solved, a new one arose.

Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to boil. In the first she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and in the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil, without saying a word.

In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl. Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl.

Turning to her daughter, she asked, “Tell me what you see.”

“Carrots, eggs, and coffee,” she replied.

Her mother brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they were soft. The mother then asked the daughter to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg. Finally, the mother asked the daughter to sip the coffee. The daughter smiled as she tasted its richness and savored its aroma.

The daughter then asked, “What does it mean, mother?”

Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity – boiling water. Each reacted differently.

The carrot went in strong, hard, and unrelenting. However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior, but after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened.The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water.

“Which are you?” she asked her daughter. “When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?”

Which am I?

Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?

Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff? Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and hardened heart?

Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstance that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor. If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get even better and change the situation around you.

When the hour is the darkest and trials are their greatest, do you elevate yourself to another level? How do you handle adversity? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean? Are you a combination?

May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human and enough hope to make you happy.

The happiest of people don’t necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; you can’t go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.

When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so at the end, you’re the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.

Results – So Far

Recently I’ve had a series of articles coming together in my head. I think I’m about ready to write them up finally. Let’s start with the results, so far…

So, a while back (as in nearly two years ago), I picked up a copy of P90x. Yes, yes, I know what you’re thinking, and yes I am still a Crossfitter at heart. ;-) Still, the workouts themselves intrigued me, as 1) they’re based around the same periodization I know works (for me at least) and 2) I didn’t need any specialty equipment such as barbells, etc (budget is a huge factor). I started the workout a few times starting in the fall of ’09, but it wasn’t until this past March that I finally got my s**t together. I even had a nasty chest infection only a couple weeks in. In the past that would have been enough to call it quits and try another day, but this time I was determined to see it through. I took a few days off, adjusted the workouts and continued to learn and develop my diet. The end result was finishing the program in early June, just in time to enjoy a wonderful summer vacation with my kiddos and some killer climbing days (which I haven’t done in years!). A recent checkup also showed all my readings are down, including my ‘bad’ cholesterol down from 223(!) to 132 (target is under 130). No pills, no magic supplements. Just consistent exercise and healthy lifestyle.

The road has been a long one, and there’s a whole lot of other personal ‘stuff’ I’ve been digging into here in 2011. Getting my physical health back has been a major component in my overall growth. I actually lost a few more pounds after finishing the program, mainly due to increased cardio and continually improving diet. I’m not a big fan of the original photos, but putting them out here for the world to see is a pretty motivating way of ensuring I never go back there…

My strength has gone up considerably, though my main focus was to shred the fat and regain my overall health.  I’ve achieved that, and am now into my second week of a whole new round. It’ll be interesting to see what progress looks like come November.

What’s next? More hard work and new challenges await. I’ve honesty never felt more physically, spiritually and emotionally stronger. The light at the end of the tunnel has turned into warm daylight and the future’s so bright, I gotta wear shades…

The Last Lecture

I know, I know, I’ve been gone a while. I’ve got a few posts started up that I need to finish and publish to catchup. So much happening over the last few months and I’m enjoying spending the time actually engaged in all the fun that I haven’t spent any time writing about it. :-)

In the mean time, I recently remembered a lecture I’d watched about a year ago, and found it still up on YouTube. Well worth a watch:

 

Jo’s 3rd Birthday Pics!

This past Saturday we lucked out with some gorgeous spring Seattle weather and had a super fun party to celebrate Josie’s 3rd Birthday. Jaidon was a wonderful helper, even spending a good 2 hours getting the clubhouse and tunnels setup in the backyard. :-)

I was amazed that even though it was a holiday weekend, tons of Jo’s friends from the neighborhood were able to attend. All the kiddos were so happy and had so much fun, they really made the day! It was also very nice to be able to hang out with the other parents for more than the 5-10 minutes we usually get. Everyone was so helpful as well, I can’t thank them enough!

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JaiLax Update

Had a few ‘issues’ with my laptop being able to upload to anywhere lately, so a bit behind on the photo updates. Today I finally got all Jai’s lacrosse pictures uploaded though!

http://fokust.smugmug.com/2011/JaiLax-11

Out of Memory

Last night I was checking on Jai’s math homework and noticed that he had forgotten to do the last two questions. I pointed this out and he started working on it. A little bit later he came downstairs saying he needed help with one of them. The problems were about finding the surface area of boxes, and the problem he was stuck on had the information in text rather than a picture with dimensions, plus the numbers were larger than he had already done. So, I helped him drew out a picture of a box and add the dimensions, but he was still having trouble. I let him struggle for a bit while I was doing dishes, when one phrase popped out to me. In frustration, he threw his hands in the air and said, “The numbers are just too big!”

First, it’s important to understand that Jaidon does all of his math problems in his head, and never writes out his work. So, listening closely, I could tell what he was actually saying was “Error: Out of Memory”. Now, bear with me before ya throw me in the loony bin. :-) First, I took some scrape paper and redrew the box, but larger. I then asked him to walk me through the steps for getting the area of each side. He huffed a bit (remember, it’s actually hard for him to slow down), but after a moment, he slowed down enough to explain each step. So, we walked through each one, filling up half the scratch paper, eventually getting the answer.

Afterwards, I explained to Jai what we had just done. Just like a computer, his brain had tried to process a problem what was too big to fit into his ‘RAM’ memory, and so he got stuck. I said, “Computers run into this same problem when the numbers get ‘too big’ and the RAM fills up. Do you know what they do then?”. I got a blank stare, so I held up the scratch paper we’d just used and said, “They write to the hard drive.” The blank stare was now replaced with confusion. I explained that just like the scratch paper, using the hard drive is much slower, but there’s a ton more room to work with, just like we had done. All that room makes it much easier to see all of the numbers keep track of where they all go. Suddenly Jai’s face lit up and I could tell, he totally got it.

I love it when I get to witness the light bulb popping on. It’s pretty awesome. :-)

Let’s Get Historical

for a moment. I came across this randomly and found it rather interesting. I actually remember installing every one of these. Ah how the years go by.